Opening remarks citation:
The Revolution Is My Personfriend: Dismantling the Romance Myth with Dean Spade
For Lovers and Fighters, Dean Spade

Films:
In The Mood for Love, dir. Wong Kar-wai
Murmur of Youth, dir. Lin Cheng-sheng
Challengers, dir. Luca Guadagnino
Eternally Younger Than Those Idiots, dir. Ryohei Yoshino

Books:
Crush, Richard Siken
I Think I've Fallen in Love or I Imagine I Have, Clare Mao
A Whore Diary, Akira the Hustler
I'm Very Into You, Kathy Acker and McKenzie Wark

Comics:
Prokaryote Season, Leo Fox
Men I Trust, Tommi Parish

Recommended by a friend:
The Agony of Eros, Byung-Chul Han